Wow it is amazing, how many here that call themselves submissive and slaves, only seem to think that a Dominant is a doormat or an asshole. Never anything in-between. A submissive needs to be self sufficient before they can think about trying to care for a Dominant. Hold down a job, pay your own way, know how to care for yourself and then you can look at how you can make the life of a Dominant easier or better. Why should a Dominant pay for your relocation! If you reach out, you should be willing to put forth the effort. A Dominant does not mean being a sugar daddy, and it also does not mean being a asshole right off the bat. Being a Dominant is having the knowledge to guide, maintain a relationship, and help the submissive grow deeper into their role. I am a Sadist. I enjoy giving consensual pain but i am not and will not Rais a hand in anger or frustration. If you want someone who hase violence in their tone or a Dominant that has a physical effect of looking like they are going to hurt you, don't contact me. I will treat you as a person first, not as a piece of meat.

What do I want...

I was asked this question by a former partner and it wasn't asked as what do you want to do or what do you want to eat etc.

No, this was more in depth for a simple 4 word question.

This was "What do you want in your future long term D/s partner?"

I had to think about this for a long time as I didn't know what I wanted really. I knew what I didn't want, but that left A LOT of other options open to what did I want.

So here goes.
The final answer is still not the final answer. More like an evolving template.
I want someone 21+ preferably someone 30+. But I want them to have the curious and adaptive mind of someone still in their twenties with the energy to accommodate it. I want them to have that mental maturity to at least figure out where they want their life to be going but still want to explore their sexuality, kinks, and fetishes yet to be discovered. I want them to want to continue to better themselves and help their partner to be better as well. I would like them to understand the fact I am aromatic, and hopefully they would understand the issues that come with it.

I want a partner that is GOOD emotionally and mentally with being in an open polly relationship. I want them to at least get along with the partners/playmates that I may have in the future. And I want them to be open to sharing time with me WITH them. Yes, I want "dinner-table" polly.

I want someone HWP. Ethnicity, Race, Creed, none of that matter. As long as they are afab, and female presenting, all I care about is a healthy body, and yes you can have a healthy body and be thic. I know my own limits in that regard and have been trying to take steps to dropping the last 15lbs I need to be at my HWP level.

I want someone that drives me without being too bratty about it. Challenges me to be a better Dominant while not trying to make me change who I am, and some one that is not afraid to call BS when needed.

I want a submissive with a slave heart. I want a partner service oriented and a partner that wants to help make their Dominant's life easier.

To me this is my unicorn.
And though it is not perfect, it is still the best answer I know to give.
I hope this helps some people my partner included, to know where my mind is.

It strikes me as odd. If you treat some one here, like a human being, you get ignored, but if you treat them like shit you get ***** *********.... I just dont get it...

Here is my opinion.

If the person does not own you or control you via agreement or contract, they have no right or reason to treat you like a piece of meat. If I am contacting you? I am damn well gonna talk to you like a human being before treating you like a flesh pocket. I may be a Master and Sadist, but I am not YOUR Master or Sadist.

New pictures of new Paddles coming soon! Also feel free to contact me if you are a HWP AFAB slave. Still looking for one for domestic and kink/fetish use.